By Diana Goolsby

The mind is such a powerhouse. We do not honor and use that power to its true potential. We over look who we really are...we become such busy bodies of how others are succeeding in the MLM world.

From the minute that we are invited to join a network-marketing venture, we are asking, "Is this working for you?" "How many people are you bringing into the business?" "How much money are you making?" In addition, on and on we go. Attend to your business and quit comparing yourself to others. One of the biggest setbacks to your success is concentrating on and asking yourself, "Why is this networking business not working for me? Why is it taking me so long to get what I want?" "What am I doing wrong?" Doubt! Doubt! Doubt!

It is not because:
• You are not intelligent enough
• You do not know the right people
• You are not worthy enough
• Bad karma
• You got into this MLM too late
• You do not have a good networking team

You have to quit imagining and creating the negative images. Realize the reason you have not already received what you desire. You are holding yourself in a vibration holding pattern that does not match the vibration of your desire. You must start stimulating the creative imagination. "What is that?" you ask. Good question. You do not recognize it within you because you are in that 'feel stuck' mood. You have been acting like a couch potato instead of utilizing the mindset of a marketer and have become weak through INACTION.

Get out of your our way; recognize and release the resistant thoughts such as fear, doubt, envy, resentment, low self esteem, etc. Break the bad habits and thoughts. You begin to recognize the baggage attached, and what it is holding you down. Release your resistance and forge forward to hold the highest levels of imagination, visualization, and creative powers. The greatest achievers have always exercised these powerful secrets to achieve their personal targets/goals in life. They use a four-step thought pattern that leads to the habit of persistence:

• A Definite Purpose Backed By A Burning Desire For Its Fulfillment.
• A Definite Plan, Expressed in Continuous Action.
• A Mind Closed Tightly Against All Negative And Discouraging Influences.
• A Friendly Alliance With One Or More Persons Who Will Encourage You To Follow Through With Both Plan And Purpose.

View yourself through the window of opportunity. Tell yourself and put action behind the words that describes who you would like to be and do. Putting power words that move you forward and allowing the choice of strong words to bring worth back into yourself will shift you into a vibration that is closer to your desires. The most important way to shift that vibration is the enthusiasm you feel in setting your pace, but persistence will carry you through to your target. "I will persist until I succeed."- Og Mandino

Remember, other people do not determine your possibilities. Who told you, you did not have the potential? Who told you, you were small? Who told you that no one succeeds in network marketing? Shake off the disappointment and let those negative vibrations roll off you like water off a ducks back.

Do not fall into the doubts; they rob us of our dreams. From out of our greatest rejections come our greatest directions. When one door closes, always know that another one opens. In addition, (not to be cut off due to discouragement of the network marketing scene), look for the windows. They are also great openings that bring in the light.

Someone said, "few things are certain in life, that people rarely fail...the only failure that does not lead to success is the failure that makes you stop". People tend to have no patience, and view their networking as if it is going to be an overnight success. If you examine those overnight successes closely, you will come to find that it took many years of preparation.

Your MLM business is like building a home; it requires a strong foundation with the patience to see it through its completion. Systematically, lighten the burden you have placed on yourself. The best targets to aim for are those you can handle in the next week, the next day, the next hour, or even in your next step. Reach a target and you will realize the next one is right around the corner ready to begin. You are the only one that has given this nasty illusion its limits. Begin to understand that you are not on a destination; you are on a journey of self that never ends and that is unlimited.

Diana Goolsby is a home school mom with three fantastic kids and husband. She is a certified mentor in the art and science of marketing through a marketing company headquartered in Phoenix, AZ. She is also a worldwide-certified spiritual motivational life coach and resides in beautiful Idaho. To learn more about Diana Goolsby and her mentoring and coaching, she can be contacted at diana@goolsby.myrf.net or 208-837-6578.